Let’s start by saying that most girls think they want a nice guy when in fact, they really want an asshole. Let me explain…

When a girl starts dating a nice guy she expects him to do all the nice things that make her happy…then later on in the relationship she gets pissed at him when for some reason he starts making offensive jokes…he starts being manipulative and self-centered, and all that. That’s only because she expected him to be this perfect sweet guy when the relationship started.

Now when a girl starts dating an asshole, she knows from the beginning not to expect much out of him. She already knows what she’s getting into so when the guy makes those jokes or acts manipulative and self-centered, she doesn’t get pissed about it because is capable of putting up with it. She knew the real him from the beginning. She just says, “Oh yeah, he’s like that – he’s an asshole.”

I am…..not sure. For me, it depends on who the person is….if they’re nice, I’ll be nice back. I’ve flirted with everything that walks by in a mini skirt, I’m manipulative, I make a lot of bad jokes, I’ve said things to girls before jokingly and they’ve gotten pissed about it….But I’m emotional, I’m honest, I listen, I don’t cheat, my name’s not Chris Brown, I’m not selfish, and I call when I say I will. So I really don’t know whether I’m an asshole or a nice guy….but I guess that’s not for me to decide.

So finally finishing up, please answer the following questions and participate in the sidebar poll!

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Guys, do you think I’m a nice guy or an asshole? Why?
Girls, would you rather be with the nice guy or the asshole? Why?